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Thank you, Cole, I really enjoyed this. Stand By Me and American Graffiti are both films that I loved in my teenage years (and still do) and I like this take on them. I find it a weird coincidence that Richard Dreyfus is the one example of four friends in both films who can be seen to have made a successful transition to adulthood, and as a writer no less!

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That is a weird coincidence, and not a connection I made. Thank you for bringing it to my attention!

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Great article. I’ll read Part 2 next. Interestingly (or not), that the three movies you highlighted, as well as most of the others mentioned as example that I’ve actually seen (To Kill a Mockingbird being a notable exception), were not films I enjoyed. Maybe because Stand By Me and American Graffiti were so male-centric and The Big Chill was too whiny for me? Maybe it was the age I was when I saw them? I’m sitting here trying to think of what coming-of-age movies impacted me, and I’m at a loss. I’ll keep thinking!

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That's fascinating, that emotional dissonance from most coming-of-age stories...

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Maybe not a coming-of-age movie, but The Deer Hunter came out when I was a senior in HS 78/79. That was the most disturbing film I had seen up until then. It certainly framed my transition to college and a couple of Vietnam vets I’d meet there. Maybe my films were more comedies, like Grease or Animal House (so blows the male-centric angle)?

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I think THE DEER HUNTER has coming-of-age film qualities, though it's been about 15 years since I've seen it - and I've only seen it once. I'm not sure I could discuss this one in great detail.

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The Big Chill was heavily influenced by John Sayles' "The Return of the Secacus Seven."

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It was indeed. I've been hoping to get John Sayles as a guest for some time now. We'll see!

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