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Oct 12·edited Oct 12Liked by Cole Haddon

Your retelling and comments about Anne Frank and her family touch me very deeply because both my mother and aunt survived the holocaust. My mother was separated from her parents, who were shot and killed, and she endured a 'labor' camp. After the camp was liberated she met my father, a WWII veteran, in Sweden and they married and immigrated to the U. S. Both had died by 2017.

My aunt, who is 96 years old, often speaks with me by phone. She abhors DJT, and knows that his father was a Nazi sympathiser and they refused to rent to non-white applicants. She once said of DJT, "that apple didn't fall far from the tree". I replied, " that apple never fell from the tree!"

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Thank you so much for sharing your family's story. Do you mind if I ask your mother's and aunt's names?

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Oct 13Liked by Cole Haddon

Thank you for your interest. My mother's maiden name was Magda Burger and my aunt's name is Martha (don't remember her maiden name). They both were born in Hungary and were in their teens when they were removed from their homes by Gestapo.

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This is powerful and speaks to all the feelings many of us have. I've considered many times moving to Norway or Denmark, where four generations ago, my ancestors left to find a brighter future in the United States. If it weren't for a grown daughter who lives here, I would have moved long ago. So, I stay and fight for justice in electing Kamala Harris and Tim Walz. Not long now. Thank you for this article.

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Thank you so much for reading and for the lovely note, Kate.

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Oct 13Liked by Cole Haddon

Great piece and much needed but sadly in these days, the people that need to see it will not read it or believe it. I’m with you. I was an immigrant to America as well and held their virtues high but now they ring hollow and I have moved back to Europe,, where yes, I can feel safe.

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Thank you for reading, and I'm sorry you, as I did, felt compelled to leave America. As for who might be swayed by this piece, I only partly wrote it for that reason. I'm not sure if anything I write could sway anyone. But I do think there are a lot of so-called progressives and liberals who purity test every candidate they encounter. As an American citizen, I've never been able to vote for a presidential candidate who wasn't flawed to begin with or didn't leave office a mass murderer and/or complicit in war crimes. I don't know if I will ever get to in my lifetime; I certainly won't be in this election. I hope these potential "voters" are reachable. Whether they like it or not, a misplaced vote or even refusing to vote is an action that bloodies your hands all the same. People will still die all the same. None of us in the West (and most other parts of the world) can escape the horror of what our countries do.

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Oct 14Liked by Cole Haddon

Yeah, I am with you on that, I feel, of course whatever happens in America affects the whole world so I am still making sure I vote from overseas because if a certain someone gets back into the White House, it would be a danger to the whole planet. 😞

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Oct 13Liked by Cole Haddon

A great piece. I wish your script for The Secret Annex had been picked up and filmed.

The feeling when we heard that Trump had won….. never want to feel that again. At the time, I thought him a buffoon. Now, I fear he is just the puppet head of a much darker beast with many tentacles. The spread of that evil is becoming apparent even here, as he opens the door and ushers through those who embrace his bile. What happens in the USA is felt around the world.

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People love to believe in conspiracies with no proof. Then, there are the ones where the conspirators just keep telling you what they're doing and nobody believes there's a conspiracy.

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Oct 12Liked by Cole Haddon

A moving piece of writing. I think you've put into words what many of us feel, but have a harder time saying.

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Thank you for reading and the kind words. I wish this piece had never been necessary.

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Whoa. That is a truly great piece, and a very timely and important one.

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Thank you for saying so, Michael. It was a difficult one to write and left me more than a little nervous as I worked on it.

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Dude. Wow.

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Oct 13·edited Oct 13Author

Thanks, Josh.

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Wow, Cole,

I think this is the most powerful creative nonfiction you have ever written. I really haven't even begun to absorb it all, but just a few VERY random (some writing related) observations, as I will need to read it several times.

a.) Love the use of the time-shifting structure. It is absolutely fitting to the deeper themes here.

b.) Just FYI....One of my favorite book bloggers (academic and English Lit teacher Simon Lavery) is the most incisive dissector and fillet-er of POLEMICS I have ever read. He is brutal but does it in an incredibly cordial and erudite manner! I recommend his blog MOST highly. I see ZERO polemic here! His link: https://tredynasdays.co.uk/

b.) I felt so sad reading about your Dad's reaction.

c.) I will never feel the same about either political party after Gaza. It wiped away any shred of innocence about what we really were. I am going to vote to PREVENT Trump but feel so differently than I did working on the Harris primary in 2019.

d.) To be honest, if I were not caring for my 92-year-old Mom, I think I would already be back in Rennes, France* for good. I have dual citizenship (an EU passport) and I simply feel more comfortable there, and ironically, MORE able to help and visit far-flung family with the much lower cost of living of a home base there.

* I think what capped it was two summers ago, having a bullet pass thru my real passenger window by me and out the other window after working late, while in an Uber home from my subway in the Washington DC region. Living here is basically like living on a gun range. And I don't see how I can get old and afford all three of food, housing, and going to a doctor with our crazy prices.

Cheers, will be reading and rereading!

Maureen M. "Moe"

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Thank you for this incredibly thoughtful and lovely note, Moe. I'll never be able to work out which of these pieces is the most powerful or this or that. I don't know if I'll ever have that perspective. To some degree, each is a gamble I take, sharing with the world. Readers kind of take it from there. I'm glad this one resonated with you so much. It was...difficult to write.

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I sat in the coffee shop on the ground floor of the Anne Frank House last December and thought about what life would look like leaving the United States for a place like The Netherlands, or somewhere else in Europe, or wherever, after touring the house and seeing the incredible displays and presentations about the Holocaust and fascism. My conclusion was “…we get so soon old and so late smart…” and the thought of leaving our children and grandchildren at this point in our lives precluded that possibility. More interesting is that I had never even considered the possibility of emigrating at any prior time. Thank you for sharing your story about principled courage. Happy to hear it’s working out for you and your family.

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Leaving one's country for a new future is incredibly difficult and not for everyone. It hasn't been without its challenges. But I never question whether I made the right decision. Thank you for reading.

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Oct 21Liked by Cole Haddon

This is the most gripping story I’ve ever read! Reading it is life-changing! To say it’s alarming and terrifying is an understatement. Every detail should be absorbed by all Americans so they might realize the consequences of voting for a Fascist by or on November 5‼️

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What an extraordinary thing to read about anything I wrote. Thank you for the note, Anthony. Share the story far and wide, if you think it will make any difference. I'm less inclined to think anything on the internet does, except cruelty and cynicism, but who knows?

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Oct 23Liked by Cole Haddon

Can’t hurt!

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I’ve read horror stories less chilling than this. Wow. If there was any sanity left in any journalistic forum here this would be in large type of the first page of every newspaper and their websites tomorrow morning. It would be read aloud. Regular programming would be interrupted for the recital of your words.

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What an extraordinary thing to read about your own writing, Patris. I just wish I'd never felt inspired to write a word of it. Thank you for reading and for sharing it. One can only hope it changes a mind or two.

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Oct 19Liked by Cole Haddon

You're an inspiration!! Thank you for being you!

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Well, I appreciate that. Thank you for reading, Yolanda.

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Congratulations on a brilliant piece. A very moving piece and I’m pleased you stood up for what you and your wife believed in. Did your screenplay ever end up in book form?

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Thank you for the lovely note, Sally, and for sharing the essay. The screenplay is always on the verge of being resurrected, and there's periodically been talk about it as a stage play. But the reality is, I got what I needed from it. I wish other people could be given the same opportunity, but as an artist, I've made peace with whatever happens with it.

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Well I have to tell you, like you I visited Ann Franks house, and had to leave due to getting so upset. I have also read her book and also that by her friend, and now with what you have written I’m feeling exactly the same 😢. I fear for people in the US and I don’t even live there, but if Trump gets in God help America.

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Oct 18Liked by Cole Haddon

Wow, thank you for writing about what is on so many of our minds. God help us if DJT gets back in the White House.

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Thank you for reading, Maureen. The next couple of months will be quite scary, sadly, whatever happens. Let's keep working to sway as many minds as possible.

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Oct 18Liked by Cole Haddon

Indeed. I was just thinking the same thing this morning when I woke up, which shows how embedded these troubling times are on our minds. My coffee to-go order name is Vote Blue.💙

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Oct 17Liked by Cole Haddon

This was beautiful.

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Thanks, Emily.

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This made me nervous reading it. Wow. Incredible writing. Scary times… sending you love and hugs ❤️🤗

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Thank you, Francesca.

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