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The Elegant Economy of 'When Harry Met Sally's' 1st Act

Writers of all stripes should study Nora Ephron's brilliant script, especially the three Act 1 meet cutes that establish the titular characters' friendship

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Cole Haddon
Jun 18, 2023
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There are so many aspects of Nora Ephron’s script for When Harry Met Sally… (1989) that deserve study by screenwriters and storytellers in general, but none more so than how Ephron spends the entire first act repeating the same meet cute — reversing who Harry and Sally are as characters and setting up the film’s real story (and conflict) in the process.

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Act 1 begins with the first meeting of Harry (Billy Crystal) and Sally (Meg Ryan). Strangers, they’ve been set up by a mutual girl/friend to drive to New York together where they are both about to start their adult lives. He’s a dark, joyless cynic; she’s a hopeless but dysfunctional romantic. It’s one hell of a meet cute, and the road trip goes about as well as you’d expect from this odd couple pairing.

Act 1 then jumps ahead five years, to show how both have found love. In a twist, Harry, the cynic, is even engaged. This surprises and even frustrates Sally, who still sees him as some kind of dark foil to her worldview and happiness.

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Then, Act 1 jumps ahead five more years and that’s when it happens:

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